Friday, February 15, 2008

one perfect uncivil afternoon

he's just unrefined...or you just don't mean a thing to him?

it takes a lot for a girl to make a phone call to a guy, she only dates couple of times. when she finally brave enuf to dial, it's busy...she's dialing again...busy again...she thinks it's a sign!

but, what are those signs?..the line engaged means not to call him or try harder?

then when he finally picks up the fon, he talks to her for few minutes then said he got sum errand, and said "we talk later..."

then she waits (his last sentences were implying tat he would call later)...and of coz...he didnt call till the next mornin...not fon call either...some sorta text messages....

to me it's a sign...that says "MOVE ON, girl...find a new one will ya!"

- wh

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

been missing for days eh?

that's a lousy but typical story... it's a sign alright..

when a man is busy enough, for whatever thing he's doing, so he doesn't have the time to call back.. that means he only finds the girl as good times partner, no more, no less..

if she expects more than that, then please move on..

(not) virgin suicide said...

eh ya...sorry...been sick still is,
i hear ya!...times partner...but seriously...some guys are just plain rude and crude once u date them...are they playing hard to get or what?..that dude was much nicer before she dated him...

Anonymous said...

that's pretty much the rule of the game, despite the hard fact.. it goes for both sides..

the difference is, only based on my exp, girls play it at the beginning and boys at mid to end.. sleeping with them being the mark between beginning to mid phase..

but rules are created to be bent, that's what makes the game exciting..

(not) virgin suicide said...

one could only bend so far, too much then it will destroy you rite after the mid-phase...(heart-less relationship is always the best way to start and end with)

celotehalia said...

Aaaah, I'm never the kind of girl who calls guys up... unless really really really REALLY neccessary atau udah deket banget atau karena guilty feeling krn piss them off and i feel an apology is in order :P

Paling banter sms-an, but sms-an is a good sign juga kok. Cos maybe dia bukan tipe cowok yang gampang ngomong dan lebih berani kalo texting :)
Just give him time *wink*

But I agree with Ordinary.
Don't worry... if he digs you, he'll find a way to get back to you.

good luck :)

(not) virgin suicide said...

yeah alia...tell that to her...she just one stubborn lady...if i hear anymore complaint from her...i swear to God...i dunno, i'll lock her up in t attic or sumthin...

Anonymous said...

not to squabble with alia.. but when you only sms-ing with a guy, here's what on his mind, "ah, cool! I can sleep with her and only need to check her out by texting every now and then"... when he has absolutely nothing to do, a new msg will come to your inbox..

if he really digs you then he'd think like this, "fuck, why do I miss her voice? I should call her".. grabs the phone, dials the number, starts the conversation, not a split second wasted..

celotehalia said...

Hahaha Ordinary, true that is! Totally agree with you!

That is why I am ALSO very suspicious on men who ONLY text me a lot. Anybody can text, but it takes courage to dial the phone.

Ah, been into the game so long, I can sniff "those kind of guys" from a mile away and wave off with my hand ala Beyonce, saying, "NEXT!"

Anyway, back to mandy... just trust your guts dear :)

Oh yeah, I have a secret tip for you mandy... after all the flirting and the intense tension build-up, I usually back off and cool down and wait for 2 weeks for a guy to initiate a contact with me.

If after 2 weeks, there is no sign of him even trying to contact me, then I'll just say goodbye, adios, sayonara and move on! :)

(not) virgin suicide said...

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